| The Happiest Mom Posted: Meagan Francis has been blogging at The Happiest Mom since 2009, but I only discovered her a few months ago. I'm not quick to add to my already-overflowing feed reader, but the first post I read intrigued me enough to keep poking around. A quick trip through her "Favorite Posts" had me hitting not only "subscribe" but "print."
Her writing is honest, relatable, funny, give-it-to-you straight. And her blog fills a needed niche: it's not the "motherhood is so hard, let's all commiserate together" mommy blog, and not the "motherhood is the greatest delight of my life, let's go do a 47-step craft with our angelic, gifted children in our meticulously organized house" mommy blog. Instead it's this delightfully challenging yet empowering middle ground: a mommy blog that says, "yes, it's hard sometimes, but you have choices about how you feel and what you do, so do what it takes to be a happy mom!"
So when I saw that Meagan Francis had a book coming out, I wanted to read it. Obviously, I was hoping for a book-length version of her blog.
Instead, I got a book-length version of Parenting magazine.
I don't like Parenting magazine.
First the positives. The book is gorgeous. Colorful, well-designed--just really nice to look at. When I requested a copy, I suggested that I'd be happy with an e-version for my Kindle, but the author said I'd want a print copy because of how beautiful it is, and she was right. If you have any kind of appreciation for print design, you'll be impressed with The Happiest Mom: 10 Secrets to Enjoying Motherhood. And there were a couple of places I marked that Francis offered some helpful insights, like "questions to ask yourself to regain perspective," that sort of thing.
But I'm afraid it speaks volumes when the first and most positive thing I want to say about a book refers to its design. I don't read books for design; I read them for content. And the content here is disappointing. The book is stuffed full of trendy pop-culture references that make it feel dated, rather than full of timeless wisdom. It reads like a collection of magazine articles--complete with obnoxious quizzes ("Are you 'Tidy Tracy' or 'Hot Mess Heather'?" I mean, seriously?) and largely pointless sidebar quotes from "real-life moms!" It's trying too hard to be your best pal, all hip and funny and full of common sense advice. In other words, it seems like something Parenting dreamed up and contracted Francis to write in a magazine-article-writer voice. Which she's really good at...but it just isn't what I was expecting or hoping for. Frankly, all I could think as I read was, "Meagan Francis is better than this."
So...yeah. I really, really hate to give a negative review of a book when the author so graciously sent me a complimentary copy. But there you have it. If you want to read winsome, funny, practical advice about enjoying motherhood, save your money and subscribe to TheHappiestMom.com. |
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